Life has a way of making the dark times seem never-ending. Finding the silver lining isn’t always easy. At times, I have been lucky because of who the universe has blessed me with. Looking back, not all of those blessings were joyful ones. Frankly, many have been lessons I needed to learn so that I could become a better version of myself. Something I could have only learned through the journey of life is that being blood doesn’t mean they will always be by your side. Or that those you pour all your energy into actually might not deserve any of that precious energy.

Relationships are a two-way street. ALWAYS.

I’ve been down a lot of one way avenues.

There will always be one person who puts in more effort. One who loves more. One who is willing to and understands how to communicate more effectively. An honest effort from another isn’t always guaranteed to be returned. Because in life, nothing is guaranteed. Every interaction with others teaches us a lesson and changes who we are or will become.

“Realize that everything connects to everything else.”

Leonardo da Vinci

I truly believe the universe will protect those who are here for a divine purpose. Why else would I still be here?

If you put out love and positivity to those around you, it will be returned in time. Karma sits and does her best work in the wings. She will get to those who have wronged you. Most likely, you will not be able to watch it happen, but what goes around always comes back around.

Have a little faith.

Waiting for that karmic energy to unleash its power on an unsuspecting, and deserving victim is like waiting for the birth of a child. Or, for those who don’t have kids yet, it’s like waiting for that vacation you’ve planned for months.

Oh, the anticipation.

Don’t get me wrong, wishing bad vibes on someone isn’t necessarily a “ Christian” thing to do. Stepping back while letting go and allowing the universe to enact punishment in good time isn’t easy. But when it does in fact happen, that my friend is the sweetest of revenge.

If, by chance, you have been gifted with the ability to see it happen. Worth every heartache you have had to endure.

I have been lucky to be on the receiving end of bountiful gifts from the universe. There have also been a few times when I felt the sting of the universe kicking me down and overwhelmed with defeat without real explanation. In those times, I was reminded of my blessings and how I should live with kindness and give grace to others.

More often than not, I have witnessed the universe taking care of people who have wronged me in some way. It’s not always grand gestures, and sometimes it’s in the subtle nuances of life. Regardless it is most definitely long-lasting vindication.

I always make sure to offer my unconditional thanks and be on my way.

Manifesting your desires can be a double-edged sword. Be very careful what you put out into the universe. Our unique Destiny’s have already been written, meaning there is always a greater purpose for the pain.

How many of you read this have control issues?

Admit it.

You know I am right. None of us has total control of anything to n this life. We may fool ourselves into thinking otherwise, but as the dear John Lennon says “ life is what happens when you are busy making other plans.”

So for now, while you wait on an explanation of exactly what your life is going to become, remember: act with kindness, breathe, smile, and stand your ground. People who hurt you will without a doubt get what’s coming. All in good time. The universe has got your back.

-Life advice: repeat after me, “Oh, bless your heart.”